I'm not sure the "no downside" auto-charge is quite right for Itars.
Suppose I have 3 in bowl 1 and 3 in bowl 2, and one in the gaia bowl. I want to be able to burn 3, and I am confident that the player to my right will give me that charge.
I do not want to be given a single free-leech by the player before him, since that will prevent me doing the burn.
So I think Itars need the option of turning off free-leech altogether
This is done by zeitlinger!
Soonish (end of the week) there will be an "always ask" option for edge cases.