Even with the 10 +1 option I have had a game take 3 hours with 4 people. That's kind of crazy. I want to play where people are expected to plan their move by the time their turn comes up.

Yeah custom would be nice.

For me, I like to play at a speed where the players are expected to be paying attention just like in any real time game. I don't want people to join my game if they are going to take 60 seconds every turn.

Oh thanks, I didn't notice that setting before.